The musings of a Secular Franciscan who is following imperfectly the surer footsteps of St. Francis to and through Christ as a pilgrim through this world. Listen! The King is coming!
Monday, March 05, 2007
To meet such a man
Spend some time walking with him.
I sat, with two friends, in the picture window of a quaint restaurant just off the corner of the town-square. The food and the company were both especially good that day. As we talked, my attention was drawn outside, across the street. There,walking into town, was a man who appeared to be carrying all his worldly goods on his back. He was carrying, a well-worn sign that read, "I will work for food." My heart sank.I brought him to the attention of my friends and noticed that others around us had stopped eating to focus on him. Heads moved in a mixture of sadness and disbelief.We continued with our meal, but his image lingered in my mind. We finished our meal and went our separate ways. I had errands to do and quickly set out to accomplish them. I glanced toward the town square, looking somewhat halfheartedly for the strange visitor. I was fearful, knowing that seeing him again would call some response. I drove through town and saw nothing of him. I made some purchases at a store and got back in my car.Deep within me, the Spirit of God kept speaking to me: "Don't go back to the office until you've at least driven once more around the square."Then with some hesitancy, I headed back into town. As I turned the square's third corner, I saw him. He was standing on the steps of the store front church, going through his sack.I stopped and looked; feeling both compelled to speak to him, yet wanting to drive on. The empty parking space on the corner seemed to be a sign from God: an invitation to park. I pulled in, got out and approached the town's newest visitor."Looking for the pastor?" I asked."Not really," he replied, "just resting.""Have you eaten today?""Oh, I ate something early this morning.""Would you like to have lunch with me?""Do you have some work I could do for you?""No work," I replied. "I commute here to work from the city, but I would like to take you to lunch.""Sure," he replied with a smile.As he began to gather his things, I asked some surface questions.Where you headed?"" St. Louis .""Where you from?""Oh, all over; mostly Florida ""How long you been walking?""Fourteen years," came the reply.I knew I had met someone unusual. We sat across from each other in the same restaurant I had left earlier. His face was weathered slightly beyond his 38 years. His eyes were dark yet clear, and he spoke with an eloquence and articulation that was startling. He removed his jacket to reveal a bright red T-shirt that said, "Jesus is The Never Ending Story."Then Daniel's story began to unfold. He had seen rough times early in life. He'd made some wrong choices and reaped the consequences. Fourteen years earlier, while backpacking across the country, he had stopped on the beach in Daytona. He tried to hire on with some men who were putting up a large tent and some equipment. A concert, he thought.He was hired, but the tent would not house a concert but revival services,and in those services he saw life more clearly. He gave his life over to God "Nothing's been the same since," he said, "I felt the Lord telling me to keep walking, and so I did, some 14 years now.""Ever think of stopping?" I asked."Oh, once in a while, when it seems to get the best of me But God has given me this calling. I give out Bibles . That's what's in my sack. I work to buy food and Bibles, and I give them out when His Spirit leads."I sat amazed. My homeless friend was not homeless He was on a mission and lived this way by choice. The question burned inside for a moment and then I asked: "What's it like?""What?""To walk into a town carrying all your things on your back and to show your sign?""Oh, it was humiliating at first. People would stare and make comments.Once someone tossed a piece of half-eaten bread and made a gesture that certainly didn't make me feel welcome. But then it became humbling to realize that God was using me to touch lives and change people's concepts of other folks like me."My concept was changing, too. We finished our dessert and gathered his things. Just outside the door, he paused. He turned to me and said,"Come Ye blessed of my Father and inherit the kingdom I've prepared for you. For when I was hungry you gave me food, when I was thirsty you gave me drink, a stranger and you took me in."I felt as if we were on holy ground. "Could you use another Bible?" I asked.He said he preferred a certain translation. It traveled well and was not too heavy. It was also his personal favorite. "I've read through it 14 times," he said."I'm not sure we've got one of those, but let's stop by our church and see"I was able to find my new friend a Bible that would do well, and he seemed very grateful."Where are you headed from here?" I asked."Well, I found this little map on the back of this amusement park coupon.""Are you hoping to hire on there for awhile?""No, I just figure I should go there. I figure someone under that star right there needs a Bible, so that's where I'm going next."He smiled, and the warmth of his spirit radiated the sincerity of his mission. I drove him back to the town-square where we'd met two hours earlier, and as we drove, it started raining. We parked and unloaded his things."Would you sign my autograph book?" he asked. "I like to keep messages from folks I meet."I wrote in his little book that his commitment to his calling had touched my life.
I encouraged him to stay strong. And I left him with a verse of scripture from Jeremiah, "I know the plans I have for you, declared the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you; Plans to give you a future and a hope.""Thanks, man," he said. "I know we just met and we're really just strangers, but I love you.""I know," I said, "I love you, too." "The Lord is good!""Yes, He is. How long has it been since someone hugged you?" I asked.A long time," he replied And so on the busy street corner in the drizzling rain, my new friend and I embraced, and I felt deep inside that I had been changed. He put his things on his back, smiled his winning smile and said, "See you in the New Jerusalem .""I'll be there!" was my reply.He began his journey again. He headed away with his sign dangling from his bedroll and pack of Bibles. He stopped, turned and said, "When you see something that makes you think of me, will you pray for me?""You bet," I shouted back, "God bless.""God bless." And that was the last I saw of him.Late that evening as I left my office, the wind blew strong. The cold front had settled hard upon the town. I bundled up and hurried to my car. As I sat back and reached for the emergency brake, I saw them... a pair of well-worn brown work gloves neatly laid over the length of the handle. I picked them up and thought of my friend and wondered if his hands would stay warm that night without them.Then I remembered his words: "If you see something that makes you think of me, will you pray for me?"Today his gloves lie on my desk in my office. They help me to see the world and its people in a new way, and they help me remember those two hours with my unique friend and to pray for his ministry. "See you in the New Jerusalem ," he said. Yes, Daniel, I know I will...If this story touched you, forward it to a friend!"I shall pass this way but once. Therefore, any good that I can do or any kindness that I can show, let me do it now, for I shall not pass this way again."
My instructions were to send this to four people that I wanted God to bless and I picked you. Please pass this to four people you want to be blessed.This prayer is powerful and there is nothing attached. Please do not break this pattern. Prayer is one of the best gifts we receive. There is no cost but a lot of rewards. Let's continue to pray for one another. God bless and have a nice day!
"Father, I ask you to bless my friends, relatives and e-mail buddies reading this right now. Show them a new revelation of your love and power. Holy Spirit, I ask you to minister to their spirit at this very moment. Where there is pain, give them your peace and mercy. Where there is self-doubt, release a renewed confidence through your grace, In Jesus' precious Name Amen."
"I sent this to more than four, but this story is so touching I felt each of you would enjoy it greatly.GOD BLESS YOU MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY!!!
Friday, February 09, 2007
He Called Me to the Window
He called me to the Window.
In the poverty of warmth
I was eager to obey.
All experience the presence
In many different ways.
Some run, some cower,
but Francis chose to stay.
Called by God from finery
True finess in the soul
Only once in heaven's gate
Would he truely know.
You can pretend she is far away
but then you must ignore the door
If you do not answer
You will not meet the Lord.
He will pass by, that choice is gone,
But none know more than He
The opportunities supplied
He'll send her patiently.
Some day the voice won't be ignored
For upon the cross the word will come
Our hearts and minds will be pierced by love
The Lady spurned will be greeted with open arms.
Francis' wounds, his bond of love
Renewed in us, his face to the world
Reflecting the face who is at the door
Greeted in love, Arms outstretched
In victory over sin, He, in Poverty, will free.
Thursday, February 08, 2007
Wednesday, February 07, 2007
UConn Mistaken on Pope
Here we see the culture of death has returned to my alma mater. No accounting for taste.
Pope Benedict XVI denounced euthanasia over the weekend, once again proclaiming life a gift from God and asserting that it could not be terminated under "the guise of human compassion." The pontiff's announcement came after an Italian doctor was cleared of wrongdoing in an euthanasia case, and more or less echoed the statements made by Pope John Paul II during the 2004 Terri Schiavo case. While it is indeed the pope's prerogative to take a stance on such divisive issues, the purportedly infallible Benedict is undoubtedly mistaken on the issue of euthanasia. Without question, euthanazing a pain-wrought patient who is not going to recover is an act of genuine human compassion that should not be prohibited. Many terminal illnesses can be extremely painful to endure. In the event that a mentally-sound patient is afflicted with such a pernicious disease, it is his or her to right to end his or her life. To borrow from John Stuart Mill's "Harm Principle," an individual should have complete independence when engaging in self-regarding actions - actions that directly affect only the individual making these choices. Choosing how and when one's life ends is a choice that truly affects the individual making the choice, and thus falls under the category of choices that should not be regulated by any outside presence. Accordingly, it is not the place of the pope nor the state to interfere with one's decision to end one's life in the event of terminal illness.The pope ought to heed the words of Cardinal Carlo Maria Martini, who contradicted the pontiff last month when he said that terminally ill patients deserve the right to refuse "unreasonably obstinate" treatment that will merely stave off inevitable death. While Martini does not support active euthanasia, i.e. administering a lethal injection to a dying patient, his nuanced perspective on the subject is appreciated, given the generally unyielding nature of the Vatican. Perhaps, in the future, a pope may come to realize, like Martini, that allowing a consenting party to die is not tantamount to murder. Societies proscribe murder because killing another human being entails violating his or her rights. In the case of an individual who wants to die, however, preserving life does not mean preserving one's rights - it means violating them. While the pope is right to believe that life deserves respect, he is wrong to maintain that all life must be continued. As evidenced by the will of some patients to die, some lives simply are not worth continuing. In these cases, euthanasia is the most rational and compassionate course of action.
The value of life goes beyond the visible - what is measured and even felt. Life is the gift and love is expressed from God and believers through life. By taking life into our hands we make ourselves like Gods. This is the sin which cast man from paradise- just because man can do something, does it mean he should?
Father, Please grant us the gift of respect of your Holy gifts, especially life. Let us not take any day for granted but see all as a gift from God.
Tuesday, February 06, 2007
Beatification cause opened for courageous Argentinean mother who rejected abortion
Beatification cause opened for courageous Argentinean mother who rejected abortion
BUENOS AIRES, February 6 (CNA) - Archbishop Guillermo Jose Garlatti of Bahia Blanca has opened the cause for beatification of the Servant of God, Maria Cecilia Perrin de Buide who refused cancer treatments in order save her unborn daughter Augustina.The tribunal that will investigate the heroism of Cecilia Perrin, who was a member of the Focolare movement, will include Father Marino Giampetruzzi, Father Elio Ricca and Alejandra Belfoire.Cecilia Perrin died on March 1, 1985 at the age of 28, when she gave up her life for her daughter and refused to undergo an abortion. In February of 1984, while already pregnant, Perrin was diagnosed with cancer. Her daughter Agustina was born in July of 1984. By the time she gave birth, however, the cancer had already progressed toolic an untreatable stage, and Cecilia died eight months later.Her remains are interred at the Mariapolis Lia Cemetery in the Buenos Aires province and hundreds visit the place each year, especially pregnant women who pray for her intercession. On November 10, 2005 the Holy See declared Perrin a Servant of God, thus paving the way for the opening of her cause for beatification and canonization.
Father, grant us the courage to live as one of your saints. May the decisions we make in our lives give glory to your kingdom of life and love. We ask this in the name of your Son Jesus, through the prompting of the Holy Spirit.
Monday, January 22, 2007
Phone thief repents after 21 text messages
A Chinese thief has returned a mobile phone and thousands of yuan he stole from a woman after she sent him 21 touching text messages, Xinhua news agency said on Monday
How often does God call us to repent of our sins? How often do we respond? If we ask forgiveness, He will provide.
Let us always be on the look out for the message from God that speaks of his love for us.
Wednesday, January 17, 2007
Nothing Will Grow There!
Brian Cavanaugh, T.O.R. tells about a magnificent harvest in his book "MORE SOWER'S SEEDS: Second Planting." One spring, he and two seminary friends sought permission to plant a garden. He says, "Our house of studies was located in the downtown area of a large metropolitan city. There wasn't much of a backyard. Actually, it was a stone-covered dirt parking lot with no extra space. However, we carefully planned our garden, taking into account the area that received optimal sunshine."The three of us approached the superior with our plan for a small area to plant some squash, tomatoes and cucumbers. The only real cost involved was to rent a rake, a pickax and a hoe. However, getting the superior's permission would still be difficult. None of us who were involved with this garden project will ever forget his response to our request. With a slightly bored, tilting of his head he glanced at us and abjectly replied, 'You're wasting your time. Nothing will ever grow there! But, go ahead if you still want to.'"We had received permission from on high! So what if it wasn't enthusiastic. We rented tools; raked four inches of stones into neat walls outlining the garden; hoisted the pickax and struck what must have been a former refuse area. A gardener's dream -- dark, composted, fertile soil just sitting there waiting to be discovered. We looked at each other with broad grins and repeated in unison, 'Ah, nothing will grow there.' As you might have surmised by now, things did grow there, in our garden. In fact, twice we re-staked the tomatoes, topping them off, finally, when they were seven feet tall."Have you ever felt that way about your life -- "Nothing will grow there..."? Have you felt discouraged about your life's progress? Worried about crop failure? Disappointed that nothing good ever seems to come up?What do you want to grow? Understanding? Faith? Courage? Optimism? Joy? Love? Or are you nurturing a new project or small business?Don't believe that "nothing will grow there." I like the observation of writer George Eliot, "It's never too late to be who you might have been." You may not always see the potential for growth, but it is there. All the rich compost you need may be hidden just beneath the surface, but can only be discovered after you begin digging.Ralph Waldo Emerson proclaimed, "Oh man! There is no planet sun or star could hold you, if you but knew what you are." You are capable of doing and becoming more than you might imagine!With careful nurture, something WILL grow there. And it will be magnificent.
By Steve Goodier
Father God,
The winter world seems cold and void of life. Let us look into our own lives, under the stones of neglect to find the fertile ground that brings forth our life, the fertile ground that is your love. Let is continue to realize that all good comes from you but that sometimes you want us to clear the stone of our lives. As St. Francis rebuilt your Holy Church we are called to rebuild our lives in the image of a perfect church, the bride of your son Jesus.
Bless us with the vision to see beyond the stones and to see and bring forth all the good that your love provides.
Monday, January 15, 2007
School bans Catholic girl from wearing crucifix
We take for granted that we can wear our crosses and have small reminders in our Christian Life, and people look at this as a nice little cross and think not more of it, except that Christ is given another opportunity to touch a life.
This girl is marked as out of the ordinary and unacceptable because she wants to display her faith. Truth be told, the girl would not survive the school if she truly lived this faith. She would be found out of the ordinary and unacceptable because of a gospel promoting life and love.
Heavenly Father look down upon us. Allow us to Share the Gospel with all those around us. May they see our smiles and our crucifixes and be drawn to you. May they see the love of our living God in our lives and be transformed by that holy presence.
And may those who sow the Gospel of Love reap His Peace.
Wednesday, November 22, 2006
Lifesupport: FORGET THE DUCK
FORGET THE DUCK! from www.LifeSupportSystem.com
Richard Hoefler, in his book WILL DAYLIGHT COME? (1979, C S SPublishing Company), tells about two young children visiting their grandparents for the summer. Johnny was given his first slingshot. He practiced shooting in the woods, but missed everything he aimed at.As he returned to Grandma's back yard, however, he spied her pet duck. It wasn't the only duck she kept, but it was her favorite. Onan impulse he took aim and let it fly. This time he didn't miss. His stone struck and killed the duck. The boy panicked. He didn't mean to hurt the bird -- he was even sure he'd miss! But he had killed it. His panic grew to desperation and he hid the duck in the woodpile, only to look up and see his sister. Sally had seen it all, but she said nothing to her grandparents. After lunch that day Grandma said, "Sally, let's wash the dishes."Sally said, "Johnny told me he wanted to help in the kitchen today. Didn't you Johnny?" She whispered to him, "Remember the duck."(Blackmailed by his sister!) So Johnny did the dishes. Later Grandpa asked if the children wanted to go fishing. Grandma said, "I'm sorry, but I need Sally to help make supper." Sally smiled and said, "That's all taken care of, Johnny wants to do it." Again she whispered, "Remember the duck." Johnny stayed while Sally went fishing. Johnny did both his chores and Sally's for several days, and could stand it no longer. He confessed to Grandma that he'd killed the duck.She said, "I know Johnny." She gave him a big hug and added, "I was standing at the window and saw the whole thing. But because I love you, I forgave you. I just wondered how long you would let Sally make a slave of you."His grandmother was more ready to forgive then he was even to ask for forgiveness. Similarly, we are surrounded by more grace than we may realize. But a disturbing inner voice often whispers, "Remember the duck. Remember the duck." Some people live their whole lives enslaved by the voice that says, "Remember the duck." They never let themselves be forgiven! They don't know the meaning of deep peace. They are seldom free of guilt and feel as if happiness only comes to others more deserving.What does it matter if the whole world were to love us, and accept us in spite of our failings, if we persist in feeling badly? Are you sick of feeling sick about the mistakes of your past?Maybe it's time to forget the duck! After you've done all you can to rectify the past, then it's time to put it down. Forget the duck -- and be free.
Monday, November 20, 2006
Thanksgiving is Life-Giving
Giving thanks goes beyond the tradition of doing something for others at Thanksgiving, although that response is good and thankful. We should give what we can, while we can, for the echo of the voice of God is found in the response. If we cannot give food, or a turkey, we can help distribute or deliver the food. God will send you the hungry, no problem.
Giving thanks is a central and essential part of life. If we look at life in a selfish way in terms of a "God and Me" relationship, God's contribution cannot be ignored and although God does not ask for thanks, we are compelled to offer our thanksgiving. If we look at life as part of a community, a faith community or otherwise, The thanksgiving not only multiplies but is joined by the angels and saints, an unending song of thanksgiving in which it is time for your contribution, be it a harmony or a solo.
Giving thanks is a supernatural part of life. God himself gave thanks while here on earth and is an example to us. He gave thanks because He knew a loving Father who provides for all His needs, just as He provides for us. His love is always present whether we appreciate it or not.
Giving thanks is also scriptural. We are reminded in the liturgy of the word, and we respond "Thanks be to God". God loves us so much that the truth is seen by anyone who opens their eyes to it.
In giving thanks, we show God our appreciation for this life in which he has provided everything for us. In return He reminds us of His endless love and the gift of eternal life he has offered us. As the weather turns to cold Let us thank God for his warmth. As the days get short, we thank him for his embrace. As our bodies, minds and souls ache, let us thank him for his healing power.
Friday, August 11, 2006
THREE STEPS TO SUCCESS
Here are three simple steps to make things happen in your life:
DO IT. Dr. Norman Vincent Peale put it like this: "Action is a great restorer and builder of confidence. Inaction is not only the result, but the cause, of fear. Perhaps the action you take will be successful "perhaps different action or adjustments will have to follow. But any action is better than no action at all." If you wait until you have all the facts or until you know how you will handle every possible challenge that comes along, you'll never get started. Begin somewhere. You can't accomplish anything until you begin. Do it.
DO IT RIGHT. One poet put it like this:"If a task is once begun, never leave until it's done. Be the labor great or small, do it well or not at all."It's true: if you don't have time to do it right, when will you find time to do it over? Do it right.
DO IT RIGHT NOW. In the Spanish-American War, as the American soldiers were trying to capture San Juan Hill, they were thrown back again and again. The black powder ammunition they were using pinpointed their position for their enemies. As soldier after soldier toppled, the troops began to panic. Up rode Teddy Roosevelt, on a little horse named "Texas," urging his men on. Encouraged by his bravery in exposing himself to the whizzing bullets, the troops began to cheer their commander. "Don't cheer, men," Roosevelt called out to them. "Fight! Now's the time to fight!"There is a time to cheer. A time to reflect. A time to plan. A time to reminisce. But there is also a time to act. Those who accomplish anything worthwhile know that time is now.
Do it. Do it right. Do it right now. These are three simple steps to success.
Thursday, August 10, 2006
30 Things to Do in the Summer
I do not apologize for borrowing the following list that came to me from a webpage designed for single parents. The following list is only enriched by doing it with the ones you love. This has been a great summer, and can be made even greater. And if anyone want to add to this list, please send it in a comment. Each of htese also provides an opportunity to Praise God!
- Have a water balloon fight.
- Go for a walk along the beach or a wooded path.
- See the sunrise.
- Have a picnic.
- Watch the sunset.
- Make playdoh.
- Read a chapter book aloud to your kids.
- Read a novel (something just for you!)
- Go to an amusement park or local county/state fair and ride all the thrill rides!
- Go fishing.
- Make homemade ice cream in a Ziploc bag.
- Sit outside and sip iced tea.
- Make fresh lemonade.
- Camp out in a tent.
- Catch fireflies.
- Take pictures of the kids having fun!
- Eat watermelon outside, and let the juice run all over the place!
- Walk in the grass barefoot.
- Use lotion, soap, or shampoo that smells like coconuts.
- Paint your toenails.
- Get out the kids' watercolor paints and paint a picture of summer means to you.
- Collect seashells and save them with some sand in a decorative bowl.
- Sleep in at least once.
- Hang your bed sheets outside to dry and bask in their clean sunshine smell.
- Eat strawberry shortcake.
- Get someone else to take your picture with the kids, smiling and sun-kissed.
- Write a letter to a friend and include at least three great things that have happened this summer.
- Thank someone who has helped you out.
- Eat fresh tomatoes.
- Go swimming as a family.
Wednesday, August 09, 2006
The Call of Lady Poverty
"Many of us struggle with the same isues as the pre-converted (St.) Francis (of Assisi), with a pampered life and a mediocre and dying faith. We know that our faith calls us to work for social justice and that this demand is non-negotiable. We know, too, as somebody once put it with a praiseworthy succinctness, that strength without compassion is violence; that compassion without justice is weakness; that justice without love is Marxism; and that love without justice is baloney! What we don't know is that the preferential option for the poor is the cure for our mediocre and dying faith."Ronald Rolheiser
This was the call of Lady Poverty- why Francis was called to always be in her presence. Lady Poverty pushes the envelope continually. There is no earthly comfort zone here, only earth stripped away, revealing the face of Love that those of the world spurn.
In the presence of poverty, God's might alone is our strength, His sacrafice is the source of our compassion, His law is the word of justice. Love is found in the truth and that truth is ever lasting.
Each Day God calls us to bring his love to the world; an unapologetic love that makes the mighty uncomfortable and makes the uncomfortable mighty. Be the Face of Love!
Tuesday, August 01, 2006
You saw Him, Didn't you?
There is a story about a man named Jim who traveled to Calcutta to volunteer with the Missionaries of Charity. To his surprise one morning, Mother Teresa asked for his help as she roamed the streets looking for the sick and dying. When they left the house and were walking through the slums of India, Mother Teresa spotted a man lying in a ditch. She bent down and told Jim, “Pick him up.” As Jim looked at the dying man covered with sores, he thought to himself, “whatever you do, don’t touch him, don’t touch him.” So, he pulled his sleeves over his hands and reached down to lift the poor man out of the ravine.
They returned to the Missionary House and Jim laid the man on a mat in a large room where the missionaries care for the dying. After laying him down, Mother Teresa said to Jim, “bathe him.” Jim looked at Mother Teresa and then turned his glance back to the dying man. He thought again, “I cannot touch that man.” But, out of fear of disappointing Mother Teresa, he agreed. He took the sick man and laid him in a tub for washing. Then, with a sponge in hand, he cautiously patted the man’s sores, still refusing to make direct contact with him. However, with every contact the man repeatedly slipped down to the bottom of the tub. Jim was overcome with emotion, “how could I be so selfish, this man needs to know that he is not alone. He needs to know God loves him.”
Jim then placed his arms under the man’s shoulders and held him as he poured water over his wounds. While he washed the man, Jim began to rock him in his arms. At this moment, Jim noticed that he was no longer holding the man he had pulled from the ditch. He was actually holding our Lord…not an image of our Lord, but Jesus Christ himself. He had holes in his hands and feet. His side was pierced. His face was battered and bruised. While Jim was rocking him, he closed his eyes in amazement. Then, once he re-opened them, the suffering man had returned to his arms. Immediately, he looked behind him and saw Mother Teresa standing there. She smiled and softly said, “You saw him, didn’t you.”
We can only imagine the number of times Blessed Teresa of Calcutta interacted face-to face with our Savior. Her faith, her love, her outpouring of self for those who were the poorest of the poor …each of these virtues opened her soul to receive an abundance of grace: graces that actually allowed her to see Christ in humanity.
As Catholic women, we are called to demonstrate the same service of love in ourcommunities that Mother Teresa witnessed for the dying in Calcutta. We might not confront the atrocities of abandonment found in India, but God presents us with unique opportunities to grow in virtue each day. We need only ask ourselves how we respond to the cranky baby, the ungrateful parent or the gossipy neighbor. Do we react in anger, frustration and spite? Or, do we respond with patience and love.
Sacred Scripture reminds us, “whoever is without love does not know God, for God is love” (1 John 4:8). This profound verse is oftentimes dismissed because of the difficulty in implementing it. In order to know God and see His face, we must love. In addition, we need to pray for God’s grace to recognize the opportunities where we can grow in virtue. The Catechism teaches that “a virtue is a habitual and firm disposition to do good” (1803). Virtuous people pursue goodness and choose it in concrete ways.
One way that women can deepen their faith and cultivate virtue in their own lives is by attending spiritual retreats. On September 8th -9th, women will gather in Colorado Springs, Colorado at the 2006 ENDOW Catholic Women’s Forum entitled “Living a Grace-filled Life.” The Forum features two days of educational and uplifting talks from prominent Catholic speakers, daily Mass and confession, and enriching fellowship with other women.
Whether we take this opportunity for spiritual renewal or another, we must remember that God desires to reveal Himself to us in new and profound ways, just as he did with Blessed Teresa and Jim. We need only open our hearts to his grace and persevere in virtue.
Visit www.endowonline.com for registration information about the 2006 ENDOW Catholic Women’s Forum.
* Mercedes W. Gutierrez sits on the Board of Directors for ENDOW (Educating on the Nature and Dignity of Women,) a non-profit, grassroots organization that promotes the New Feminism as proposed by Pope John Paul II. Mercedes and her husband Sergio live in Denver, Colorado.
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When did I see you hungry... thirsty.... sick... imprisoned....
Lord Open my eyes that I might see you always before me, not in the specatular, but in the ordinary, in the brad and wine of our lives, that we may see you, and ourselves be transformed.
Lord I offer myself to you today. Hold me to my offering, for what you offer in return is so much the greater.
Thursday, July 20, 2006
Consecration to Mary
EWTN - Prayers
The Triumph of Mary's Immaculate Heart
http://www.hli.org/sl_2006-05-26.html
I am reminded, reviewing the above article by Fr. Tom about consecration and the action of Pope John Paul II in consecration himself and his papcy to Mary.
How powerful God can be in our lives if we open up to his love; all our actions should be a consecration to his Holy Will, just as Mary's "YES, Let it be done to me according to thy word" defines her life and ongoing mission in the world today. As children given a mother like Mary, we are compelled to give our wills back to Jesus.
In fact, this is a reflection of the relationship between God the Father and Jesus, A constant back and forth giviing of self which in fact births the Holy Spirit.
God desires us so much to surrender all to Him, so that we, in turn might have everthing.
Tuesday, July 18, 2006
Cell Phone vs. Bible
I wonder what would happen if we treated our Bible like we treat our cell phones?
What if we carried it around in our purses or pockets?
What if we turned back to go get it if we forgot it?
What if we flipped through it several times a day?
What if we used it to receive messages from the text?
What if we treated it like we couldn't live without it?
What if we gave it to kids as gifts?
What if we used it as we traveled?
What if we used it in case of an emergency?
What if we upgraded it to get the latest version?
This is something to make you go...hmmm...where is my Bible?
Oh, and one more thing...unlike our cell phone, we don't ever have to worry about our Bible being disconnected because Jesus already paid the bill!
One other thing: No Dropped Calls!
Thursday, May 04, 2006
'United 93' Passenger Had Premonitions
Sometimes God gives us premonitions - a kind of prophecy - which goes beyond what we know to be the natural order of things. This is expressed as God's will for us.
Prophets of the Bible often received word from God, not only for themselves, but their country, and because God goes beyond the border of countries, the entire world.
Most of these prophecies concerned the Messiah, the promised one. It is he who makes our relationship right with our beloved God.
When God puts a word on our hearts, it may be a warning or it may be consolation, but he wants us to know that all is in his hands.
We do not need to be afraid. We can be at Peace.
Let's Othercott Da Vinci - Christianity Today Movies
Let us minimize the effect of this scandalous Davinci Code.
It is intended to divide the sheep of Christ as the devil wants to do.
Go to the movies, but see something else. Be in the world but not of it. Be of Full of God's graces and want nothing but the truth.
And if you want the truth, see scripture. That is the word right from the mouth of God.
Monday, April 17, 2006
The Easter Bunny
The above story is about a family who finds out one of the neighbor's families did not have a visit from the Easter bunny.
In a "What Would Jesus Do? " moment, the importance of our relationships is revitalization, like the spring time sun calling to life all the animals and the offspring who came to life in the winter months.
We are likewise called to Life, Death and Love living in the Son as we profess that we do.
We are called to be free from inactivity and hiding, to live on the earth promoting God's kingdom. That's why he put us here and that's what he'll be looking for when he returns.
Do not hide the Easter light under the basket of fear, but shine, come forth and believe. The opportunity God gives us is before us. Grasp it wholeheartedly and you will be rewarded wholeheartedly.
Monday, April 10, 2006
Loved Into Action
LOVED INTO ACTION
Despite his best sales pitch, a life insurance salesman was unable
to get a couple to sign up for a policy. "I certainly don't want to
frighten you into a decision," he announced, standing up to leave.
"Please sleep on it tonight, and if you wake up in the morning, let
me know what you think."
People can be motivated by many different means. Fear is commonly
used. So is guilt. But many people find that other kinds of
motivation are usually more effective in getting more out of those
with whom we live and work.
A twelve-year-old girl took her younger brother, who suffered from a
mental disability, Christmas shopping. As they went into a
department store, the boy accidentally bumped a display, knocking
shoes in every direction. A weary and frazzled clerk grabbed the boy
by the arm and demanded, "Pick them up."
"No," the boy screamed in defiance.
"Pick them up," the clerk shouted.
"No," the boy shouted back.
His older sister began picking up shoes. The boy started to help.
Before long, the boy, his sister and the tired clerk were working
together to put the shoes back in order.
When they finished, the girl taught the clerk a profound lesson with
these words: "You have to love my brother into doing it."
If you live or work with people, you may benefit from her advice. If
you want people to respond to you, try loving them into action.
Flies and people prefer honey. When you fill people with what they
want, you're likely to get what you want out of them.
It was a love like this that brought Jesus to Earth. Jesus humbled himself to our level and provided an example to us of how it live.
God provides us with wonderful examples and reminders of His Love. The Key to finding God is to recognize love's presence and to open love's presents.
Thursday, April 06, 2006
Shark Tank: Isn't that kinda like what software is made of? | Computerworld Blogs
A reputation often goes along with a particular profession. It may not seem the case but as a programmer, one is seen to be the genius. The genius truly lies in one of two categories:
Making Sense: Something doesn't look right; one comes up with options to make it right. The problem must be dissected and the root of the problem comes clear.
Common Sense: The answer will jump out if a certain factor (known or unknown) is brought to light.
The fish in the above article is genius for taking his place and being adaptable enough to solve the problem. So its not software. Deal with it.
Danielle Bean - My Dutiful Dryer
Danielle writes bout her dryer in her blog. Her apppreciation of her family and her environment comes through on her blog. It is amusing, insightful sometimes scary - just like life.
The Franciscan concept of poverty came to mind when I read about her dryer. Full of quirks and up and downs, it is an icon of possession. I thought about how good of God to provide this dryer to her.
I don't think St. Francis would be one to have a dryer. He surely wouldn't have gone out to buy one. If he had one, he probably would have given it away. He might think twice if it had the quirks of Danielle's dryer. In which case he would be heard "Be praised my Lord for Sister Dryer who helps me clothe the naked...."
With all the things that can go wrong with possessions, that sentiment is not so bad.
Thursday, March 30, 2006
Call Home
Would I want a cell phone in my casket? It would not matter.
The dead body there would not care.
The everlasting soul would not care.
If the Creator had an overwhelming desire for me to contact the living, he would provide the methodology. The cell phone would be useless.
The Communion of Saints allows all believers to be one in Christ. There is a physical separation upon death, but there is great joy in our reuniting with our loved ones through our prayer intentions on earth who can and will intercede for us. Upon our own death, we continue in the Communion of Saints and join our loved ones in Christ.
THE BURNING BUSH - Home of the Burning Bush Devotional: "There is a new phenomenon that is making its way across the globe. People are being buried with their cell phones. In South Africa, it was reported that a funeral home will actually include several batteries just in case one runs down. In some places it would appear the desire is for the recently departed to be able to actually make use of the phone if possible. In other places, it is simply the placing of something meaningful in their life to be with them. I have seen many different personal items placed in a casket with a loved one and it can be a very touching thing to see. However, if the body is to be cremated make sure you remove the battery from the phone because they will explode when heated."
The Devil’s Toy Machine
The evil one likes for us to keep the status quo. He certainly is not interested in seeing us grow in Christ!
God wants us to seek Him. If we seek Him within ourselves, ultimately we may find that we are worshipping ourselves and have no interest in God or his kingdom.
God can and will save us from ourselves. We must be open to Him and invite Him.
THE BURNING BUSH - Home of the Burning Bush Devotional: "Some people are like a three-year-old in a toy machine - they do not want to leave. They want their sins and they do not want to give them up. That is the condition of many people before salvation and it sadly is the condition that some find themselves in even after they know the Lord."
Wednesday, March 29, 2006
Mary Appears
Driving down the hill, I saw on the hill not far away a lone house, a tree... and an image of Our Lady!
The image lasted for the drive down the hill. I was filled with joy, realising that the Mother of God would choose to come and gently touch my life this morning, inviting me to prayer, inviting me close to her Son as well as our Father.
There are those who would argue that Mary was not there. No evidence. I don't know if the person in the car in back of mine would recognize her. That in itself is OK. I KNOW Mary was there. In fact, the only evidence I can offer is that my heart lept.
For people who do not believe in leaping hearts, intercession or that God can break into nature at His will, no explaination can be given. For those who believe, no explaination need be given.
Just know that Mary showed up in Bridgeport, CT on March 25, 2006. God has not and will not forsake us. Just follow Mary's example and say yes to Him.
Friday, November 11, 2005
Be Generous
Be Generous.
Today's Thought
Give more than you were planning to.
More of your money, your time,
your energy, your attention,
your efforts, your talents.
Give without worrying about how
you might be paid back.
Know that every thing you have
comes from God and has been given
to you freely.
Do the same.
Do not worry that you might
give too much.
Worry about not giving enough.
If in the end you come up short,
our Heavenly Father will fill
you up where are lacking.
Visit Danielle's Site
Monday, July 11, 2005
Ozymandias
Who said: `Two vast and trunkless legs of stone
Stand in the desert. Near them, on the sand,
Half sunk, a shattered visage lies, whose frown,
And wrinkled lip, and sneer of cold command,
Tell that its sculptor well those passions read
Which yet survive, stamped on these lifeless things,
The hand that mocked them and the heart that fed.
And on the pedestal these words appear --
"My name is Ozymandias, king of kings:
Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair!"
Nothing beside remains. Round the decay
Of that colossal wreck, boundless and bare
The lone and level sands stretch far away.'
-- "Ozymandias", Percy Bysshe Shelley
I happened upon these woirds, a poem memorized in grade school. The truth that survives is of the Lord, all else is lies, fleeting and blowing in the breeze.
The Good Ground
A Disciple's Prayer
I bow to the sacred in all creation.
May my spirit fill the world with beauty and wonder.
May my mind seek truth with humility and openness.
May my heart forgive without limit.
May my love for friend, enemy, and outcast be without measure.
May my needs be few and my living simple.
May my actions bear witness to the suffering of others.
May my hands never harm a living being.
May my steps stay on the journey of justice.
May my tongue speak for those who are poor without fear of the powerful.
May my prayers rise with patient discontent until no child is hungry.
May my life's work be a passion for peace and nonviolence.
May my soul rejoice in the present moment.
May my imagination overcome death and despair with new possibility.
And may I risk reputation, comfort, and security to bring this hope to the children.
Mary Lou Kownacki, OSB
My meditation on the Gospel this week, of the seeds sown on the ground, is that the seed falls where it will, and ground is ground.
My wife is a gardener, and we just retunred from vacation. She had a neighbor water the ground. I'm sure she will be working the earth before long to make things right again.
Ground can be made better, but only by those who tend the ground. A path can be redirected, and the soil enriched so that a plant can grow. The nature of rocky ground an be changed by removing the rocks or pulveriziing them into soil. Properly cared for soil will not produce choking weeds. The good grounds keeper will not let those weeds get out of control. A little plant food will make a growing plant happier and healthier. So ask our grounds tender to be with us and make us more fruitful!
Monday, June 27, 2005
Beliefnet.com -- Grace Happens
today's story was about a person who was contesting a traffic ticket, how the author listened to plea after plea not change the mind of the judge, and how a police officer was not there to be the accuser, so the charges got dismissed.
The author saw person after person give 'valid' excuses (many not so valid). Prepared for an arguement, and dismissed. In the parking lot, God's little reminder: Grace happens. What a blessing to have it happen! What a greater blessing for us to REALIZE that it happened! Praise God!
WTNH.com - High court bars display of Ten Commandments at courthouses
(Washington-AP, June 27, 2005 Updated 10:31 AM) _ In a narrowly drawn ruling, the Supreme Court struck down Ten Commandments displays in courthouses Monday, holding that two exhibits in Kentucky crossed the line between separation of church and state because they promoted a religious message.
The 5-4 decision, first of two seeking to mediate the bitter culture war over religion's place in public life, took a case-by-case approach to this vexing issue. In the decision, the court declined to prohibit all displays in court buildings or on government property.
The justices left themselves legal wiggle room on this issue, however, saying that some displays -- like their own courtroom frieze -- would be permissible if they're portrayed neutrally in order to honor the nation's legal history.
But framed copies in two Kentucky courthouses went too far in endorsing religion, the court held.
the touchstone for our analysis is the principle that the First Amendment mandates government neutrality between religion and religion, and between religion and nonreligion,' Justice David H. Souter wrote for the majority.
'When the government acts with the ostensible and predominant purpose of advancing religion, it violates that central Establishment clause value of official religious neutrality,' he said.
Souter was joined in his opinion by other members of the liberal bloc -- Justices John Paul Stevens, Ruth Bader Ginsburg and Stephen G. Breyer, as well as Reagan appointee Sandra Day O'Connor, who provided the swing vote.
In a dissent, Justice Antonin Scalia argued that Ten Commandments displays are a legitimate tribute to the nation's religious and legal history.
Government officials may have had a religious purpose when they originally posted the Ten Commandments display by itself in 1999. But their efforts to dilute the religious message since then by hanging other historical documents in the courthouses made it constitutionally adequate, Scalia said.
He was joined in his opinion by Chief William H. Rehnquist, as well as Justice Anthony Kennedy and Clarence Thomas.
'In the court's view , the impermissible motive was apparent from the initial displays of the Ten Commandments all by themselves: When that occurs: the Court says, a religious object is unmistakable,' he wrote. 'Surely that cannot be.'
'The Commandments have a proper place in our civil history,' Scalia wrote.
The case was one of two heard by the Supreme Court in March involving Ten Commandments displays in Kentucky and Texas. That case asks whether the Ten Commandments may be displayed on the grounds outside the state capitol.
The cases marked the first time since 1980 the high court tackled the emotional issue, in a courtroom boasting a wall carving of Moses holding the sacred tablets.
A broader ruling than the one rendered Monday could have determined the allowable role of religion in a wide range of public contexts, from the use of religious music in a school concert to students' recitation of 'under God' in the Pledge of Allegiance. It is a question that has sharply divided the lower courts in recent years.
But in their ruling Monday, justices chose to stick with a cautious case-by-case approach.
Two Kentucky counties originally hung the copies of the Ten Commandments in their courthouses. After the ACLU filed suit, the counties modified their displays to add other documents demonstrating 'America's Christian heritage,' including the national motto of 'In God We Trust' and a version of the Congressional Record declaring 1983 the 'Year of the Bible.'
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I am not surprised by this, but deeply saddened. I will continue to pray for this country, but since it's laws are clearly no longer based on the 10 commandments, they are of men and not God, I do not see the nation as one nation under God.
The nation lies when it puts "In God We Trust" on currency
The nation forfiets the blessings the founding fathers brought forth
The nation and those who push aside the commands of God will receive the fruit of that action, just as those who obey the commands of God will enjoy these fruits.
I will put my trust in the God who has the power of life and death, not the stiff necked people who look to sieze that power.
I will not trust this government, but I will trust the God who still allows this government to exist.
Tuesday, June 21, 2005
Ten ways to attract new people into your life
Whether you are attracting new clients for your business, have moved into a new community and want to make friends, have started a new job, or are open to romance, here are some ways to attract new people:
1. Smile.
I recently heard of a man who met his fiance when she gave him a friendly smile at the dry cleaners, and he asked the cleaners for her name. Smiling is often a first point of contact.
2. Eye contact.
This is a sign of confidence and contact. WARNING: longer than 3 seconds is considered flirting; staring is a turn off. (This varies from culture to culture, as well as smiling, speaking first, and shaking hands. Some cultures hug, kiss on the cheek, bow.)
3. Say "hi."
If we all always waited for the other to speak, we would live in a silent world.
4. A firm handshake.
Need I say more? This also conveys confidence.
5. Go where the people you want to attract will be.
I heard of a woman who prefers meeting men at the local Chamber of Commerce rather than a bar, because "at least I know they will have a job." If you want to meet other professionals, join the professional organization. If you want to meet other skiers, go to the local ski club meeting. If you want to meet people with similar morals, beliefs, and values, try a church, synagogue, temple, etc. It is hard to attract new people when you are sitting home alone watching TV.
6. Dress appropriately.
If you want to attract clients, dress like people do in their business and culture. Using the example again of meeting people with similar beliefs, morals, and values: if you want to meet conservative people, do not wear something flashy or flamboyant. If you want to run with the motorcycle crowd, go for the leather pants! Obviously, clothes that are clean, pressed, that fit, are not outdated.
7. Be honest, positive, and brief.
Honesty: because relationships are founded on trust. Positive: attitude, attitude, attitude! Brief: so you leave plenty of time to...
8. Listen!
Everyone has the desire to feel significant. Doesn't someone truly
listening to you, showing an interest in you and your interests, and your business enhance that feeling?
9. Be happy, content with yourself and your life.
Do you think someone new wants to hear about how great things were back at/with X company, town, or person? Will you draw people to yourself if you are doing it out of desperation, because you feel incomplete, not OK, lonely? (N0.) It is hard to be happy, content when you are comparing. When you are happy, you will naturally be smiling!
10. Be the kind of person you want to attract.
If you want to attract someone who is in shape and has a healthy
lifestyle, be in shape and have a healthy lifestyle. If you want to
attract clients you can count on and pay on time, be accountable and pay on time. If you want to attract good communicators who treat you well, make sure your communication skills are polished, and pay attention to how you treat others. ETC.
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Friday, June 17, 2005
PAINTED WITH A DIFFERENT BRUSH LifeSupport
Steve is a good writer, and one who can find the nugget of truth and refine it to gold. Today's installment included the story of the shooting the brinks men who were shot and of the only 2 people who returned the money.
What bothers me the most is that people were loading up on the money while the guards lie there bleeding. I guess this inspires the following prayer:
Heavenly Father, You give us all good things. May we always see your beauty in all of creation, in particular the people with whom we share our day. May we show them your face, your compassion and love and find reward in that act. I know you will take care of me, so I do not need to take advantage of anyone for my daily needs. May you spirit always guide me to act according to your will, and bring forth your kingdom. I ask this in the name of your Son, who showed us your face, allowing us to recognize it in all creation.
Thursday, June 16, 2005
From Father to Child
In researching my book Wisdom of Our Fathers, I interviewed 138 men of all ages and from all walks of life. We talked about career satisfaction... the secrets of making love last... how to find happiness. But few of the men were having the same conversations with their children.
It's never too late. Seven essential life lessons that every dad should share, no matter how old his children are...
Be curious. Kids are innately curious -- but in our rush to get wherever we're going, we fathers are always urging them to move along. Nothing will better unite you with your children -- and better prepare them for life -- than sharing mutual wonder and the urge to explore.
Example: Maybe there is an interesting insect or a beautiful flower in your backyard. Get down on your knees and examine it closely... look it up on the Internet. Try to figure out how any type of machine works -- toaster, lawn mower, car, etc.
Be generous. Not just with money -- but with time... possessions... and love. The spirit of generosity will teach your children empathy, helping them feel concern for those around them.
Admit when you're wrong. If you don't act as though you're perfect, your children will know that they don't have to be perfect either.
Be willing to fail. The kite crashes... a repair doesn't work... the puzzle pieces won't fit together. So what? You've shown your kids that it's important to try new things, regardless of how they turn out.
Trap: Some fathers try to appear perfect. Their children will always feel pressured to live up to unrealistic ideals.
Be spontaneous. My dad planned everything to the last detail. While it is fine to be organized, it also creates pressure to do things in certain ways. This takes some joy out of life.
Teach your kids that it's okay to abandon plans when something else comes along... to turn left even though they had planned to turn right.
Instant adventures: See what activity looks interesting in the newspaper and do it... hop on a bicycle or get in the car and see where the road takes you -- maybe make nothing but right turns... get on a bus and get off at an unfamiliar stop to explore.
Embrace spirituality. We all find spirituality in different ways -- by going to church or synagogue... meditating... appreciating the glories of nature. Encourage your children to cultivate their sense of awe and wonder -- not once a week, but all the time. Spirituality is like a muscle -- you have to use it frequently to make it stronger.
Respect your body. Nothing is more important than good health. Lead by example -- this is not a lesson you can teach by talking.
Let your kids see you exercising (encourage them to join in)... eating a healthful diet... and generally living a clean life.
Bottom Line interviewed Joe Kita, executive writer at Men's Health and Pennsylvania-based author of several books, including Wisdom of Our Fathers, and Another Shot: How I Relived My Life in Less Than a Year (Rodale).
Being a Father is as big a gift as the good Lord can give. It is a reflection of his own life and love for us. Yes, being a good Father is something to work at, be we are not on our own. We have the example and grace of our heavenly Father.
Wednesday, June 15, 2005
What I Would Have Missed
by Max Lucado
I could have been out of town that week. I had an invitation to be in the Midwest at a church. I turned it down. What if I hadn't? If I had gone, I would have had the attention of a thousand people for an hour.
I would have had the opportunity to speak about Jesus to some people who don't know him. Is a Tuesday evening at home with three children and a spouse more important than preaching to an audience?
Read my list of what I would have missed. Then you decide.
I would have missed a trip to the swimming pool in which I saw Jenna climb onto her inner tube for the first time.
I would have missed fifteen minutes of bouncing up and down in the shallow end of the pool, with Andrea clinging to my neck singing the theme from "Sleeping Beauty."
I would have missed seeing Denalyn get sentimental as she unpacked a box of baby clothes.
I wouldn't have gone on a walk with the girls during which Jenna found ten "special" rocks.
I wouldn't have been there to hold Andrea when her finger got slammed in the door.
I wouldn't have been there to answer Jenna's question: "Daddy, what is a handicapped person?"
What do you think? I know my vote. There are a hundred speakers who could have addressed that crowd, but my girls just have one daddy.
After I made my list, just for the fun of it I picked up the phone and called the church that had asked me to come and speak that week. The minister wasn't in, but his secretary was. "Isn't this the week of your seminar?" I asked.
"Oh, yes! It has been a wonderful success!"
They didn't even miss me.
According to Max, some things came beofre his preaching. It looks like the Lord wanted to spend some time speaking to him about His Love in a different way. Blessed be the Lord!
Friday, June 10, 2005
Although pope might not return, neighbor cares for home, garden
PENTLING, Germany (CNS) -- Although Pope Benedict XVI might never return to the home he built and still owns in Pentling, his next-door neighbor cares for the garden each day. Housekeeper and neighbor Rupert Hofbauer said his relationship with the pope goes back to 1969, when then-Father Joseph Ratzinger moved to Pentling after becoming a professor of theology at nearby Regensburg University. "This house is his own. I was there when he bought the plot, hired an architect and built it," Hofbauer recalled in late May. "He needed somewhere quiet, but within walking distance of the university because he does not drive. "He came over, introduced himself and said he was going to build a house," the neighbor remembered. "It became his permanent home, and he returned as often as he could. He usually celebrated New Year's together with his brother, Georg, just the two of them. In summer, they would often sit on his balcony, reading, or walk around the garden. Then they would retire indoors and make themselves a simple supper."
Life imitates life, Just as the Pope looks after the Savior's vineyard, so we all have been enrusted to look after creation.
Thank you God for your many blessings!
Live It!
Life is a dream; realize it.
Life is a challenge; meet it.
Life is a duty; complete it.
Life is a game; play it.
Life is a sorrow; feel it.
Life is a song; sing it.
Life is a struggle; accept it.
Life is an adventure; risk it.
Life is luck; make it.
Life is a puzzle; solve it.
Life is opportunity; take it.
Life is a song; sing it.
Life is a mission; fulfill it.
Life is life; live it!
Just a meditation and a reminder. Someone once said "life is not a dress rehersal". Even though we are looking forward to our heavenly reward, God has us here and now. We should not only take advantage of the life, but emmerse ourselves in it.
By experiencing Gods gifts, we are so blessed. In experiencing life, we experience God. We find God's face in the face of the living.
Peace and all good to you today!
Wednesday, June 08, 2005
Dear Baby
Dear Baby
A soldier writes to her unborn child about duty to her country and the decision to serve in the military.
By Staff Sgt. Sharon McBride
This story reminds me of what the military is all about. At the base , it is people; but also much more. You hear many bad things about the military, but these are our people, who are in theory trying to do something good and should be embraced and brought home as heroes.
Wednesday, June 01, 2005
ZENIT News Agency--June a Month to Rediscover Christ's Love, Says Pope
ZENIT News Agency--The World Seen from Rome
Date: 2005-06-01
June a Month to Rediscover Christ's Love, Says Pope
Makes Special Exhortation to Young People and the Sick
VATICAN CITY, JUNE 1, 2005 (Zenit.org).- Benedict XVI urged young people and the sick in particular to rediscover Christ's love during June, a month dedicated to the Sacred Heart.
Speaking in Spanish at the end of today's general audience in St. Peter's Square, the Pope reminded the faithful that "next Friday is the feast of the Sacred Heart of Jesus" and encouraged them to pray "that he may help us to love our brothers as he loved us."
This feast was promulgated in memory of Christ's apparitions to St. Margaret Mary Alacoque (1647-1690) in which Christ expressed his sorrow over the sins and sacrileges of humanity.
Before taking leave of the 25,000 people who attended the audience, the Holy Father addressed special greetings to young people, the sick and newlyweds.
"We begin today the month of June, dedicated to the Sacred Heart," he said. "Let us pause frequently to contemplate this profound mystery of Divine Love.
"Dear young people, in the school of the Heart of Christ, you will learn to assume with seriousness the responsibilities that await you."
Addressing the sick, many of whom were in the front rows, the Pontiff invited them to find "in that infinite source of mercy the courage and patience to understand the will of God in every situation."
"And you, dear newlyweds," he added, "remain faithful to the love of God, witnessing to it with your conjugal love."
Wednesday, May 25, 2005
Just for today
As for the tracking mentioned in the message, this is wishful thinking. If anyone has firsthand knowledge otherwise, let me know. None the less we should do what is important to do, for today.
Please read and forward to as many people as you can. You'll understand after reading this.
To My Child (don't delete ~ its being tracked)
Be sure and read to the bottom portion.....
Just for this morning, I am going to smile when I see your face and laugh when I feel like crying.
Just for this morning, I will let you choose what you want to wear, and smile and say how perfect it is.
Just for this morning, I am going to step over the laundry, and pick you up and take you to the park to play.
Just for this morning, I will leave the dishes in the sink, and let you teach me how to put that puzzle of yours together.
Just for this afternoon, I will unplug the telephone and keep the computer off, and sit with you in the backyard and blow bubbles..
Just for this afternoon, I will not yell once, not eve! n a tiny grumble when you scream and whine for the ice cream truck, and I will buy you one if he comes by.
Just for this afternoon, I won't worry about what you are going to be when you grow up, or second guess every decision I have made where you are concerned.
Just for this afternoon, I will let you help me bake cookies, and I won't stand over you trying to fix them.
Just for this afternoon, I will take us to McDonald's and buy us both a Happy Meal so you can have both toys..
Just for this evening, I will hold you in my arms and tell you a story about how you were born and how much I love you!
Just for this evening, I will let you splash in the tub and not get angry.
Just for this evening, I will let you stay up late while we sit on the porch and count all the stars.
Just for this evening, I will snuggle beside you for hours, and miss my favorite TV shows.
Just for this evening when I run my finger through your hair as you pray, I will simply be grateful that God has given me the greatest gift ever given.
I will think about the mothers and fathers who are searching for their missing children, the mothers and fathers who are visiting their children's graves instead of their bedrooms, and mothers and fathers who are in hospital rooms watching their children suffer senselessly, and screaming inside that they can't handle it anymore.
And when I kiss you good night I will hold you a little tighter, a little longer. It is then, that I will thank God for you, and ask him for nothing, except one more day......! ........
Hi. I am a 29 year old father. Me and my wife have had a wonderful life together. God blessed us with a child too. Our daughter's name is Rachel, and she is 10 years old. Not long ago did the doctors detected brain cancer in her little body. There is only one way to save her and that is an operation. Sadly we don't have the money for the operation. AOL and Zdnet have agreed to help us. The only way they can help is this:
If you send this email to other people, AOL will track this email and count how many people get it. Every person that opens this email and sends it to at least 3 people will give us 32c. Please help us. George Arlington
Beliefnet.com -- Confessions of a talented--and tired--telephone psychic.
What really goes on behind a psychic hotline? Confessions of a talented--and tired--telephone psychic.
By Dougall Fraser
Everything that a struggling 20-year-old psychic could do, I did. I read at a psychic fair at a women's university while religious protestors waved signs out front. I read at bookstores and coffeehouses. Around this time—in the late 1990s—psychic phone lines were tremendously popular... It was my dream to work on a psychic hotline. It seemed too good to be true—I could work from home and do what I loved. I was hearing at the psychic fairs that some people were making $2,000 or $3,000 a month working psychic lines, plus bonuses. That was big money to me."
This article confirms what we know to be true - you cannot worship God and money. It was interesting that the author was sincere about his psychic abilities. I do not find redemption within myself. God knows what he knows and gives me everything I need.
Monday, May 23, 2005
Orson Scott Card on Star Wars and Revenge of the Sith Jedi religion faith force -- Beliefnet.com
The article has some important points:
1. George Lucas should stay out of religion, although he can tell a good story.
2. There is no room for evil in my God - and no excuse for it in anyone else's.
3. One should know the whole story before weighing judgement.
Here is an analogy - Jesus was tempted by Satan, much like Anakin and the dark side. Jesus never saw evil as an option in his mission, even though temptation was convincing. Anakin saw evil as a way to save his love... however, the evil consumed him entire.
I'll stick with Jesus, thank you.
Friday, May 20, 2005
Giuliani Pressured to Abandon Loyola Speech
Generally I like Rudy. He was a rock on 9/11. But when it comes to the successor of the Rock(Peter) in the person of Benedict XVI, I 'd sooner lean on him.
A place like Loyola should keep it's Catholic identity as one of it's crown jewels, the type of jewel that is today scorned or even thrown before pigs. So, stand up for life.
And if Rudy really thought about it, as he stood for those lives on 9/11 he would stand for the babies too.
Thursday, May 19, 2005
ZENIT News Agency--Terri Schiavo's Parents Greet Pope
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, You gift us each day with Faith Hope Love and Life, given to us unconditionally. Have mercy on your people who consider the Law of the Land above your law. Grant to us your people a conformance of our law to your law so that we may bring ourselves to live in your heavenly kingdom, as we profess daily when we prayer "Your Kingdom Come...".
Thank you for the gift of your Pope and his continued promotion of the culture of Life. Thank you for the ultimate sacrafice of Jesus, without whom there would be no hope of everlasting life. Thank you for the gift of voice to pray to you and the gift of grace which allows me to bring my prayer before you. I offer my prayers and thanks through Jesus your son, anbd the prompting of teh Holy Spirit.
ZENIT News Agency--The World Seen from Rome
Terri Schiavo's Parents Greet Pope
VATICAN CITY, MAY 18, 2005 (Zenit.org).- Benedict XVI greeted the parents of Terri Schiavo, the American woman who died as a result of a court decision to remove her feeding tube.
At the end of today's general audience, held in St. Peter's square, the Holy Father greeted Bob and Mary Schindler, who showed him a photograph of their daughter.
The Schindlers, who were among the 25,000 pilgrims attending the audience, arrived in Rome with members of the recently created association "Missionaries of the Gospel of Life," founded by Father Frank Pavone.
Terri Schiavo's parents visited Cardinal Renato Martino, president of the Pontifical Council for Justice and Peace, on Tuesday, to thank him for speaking out in favor of Terri's life during the legal battle.
At the end of the audience, the Pope also personally greeted the sick and handicapped in wheelchairs.
CSI Forensic Science Quest Pictures of Jesus Shroud of Turin
Guess what! The picture on the shroud are much older than medieval.
I will most likely be returning to this subject again, but I happen to believe that the shroud is authentic. If it is not authentic, then my faith is not shaken because God infuses our physical world with reminders of him, predominantly natural signs. The occasional sign that goes beyond nature (super-natural) is a sign that God is still in charge around here.
Tuesday, May 17, 2005
The Connecticut Post Online - Preschool expulsion rate alarming
1st study shows troublesome data, especially in state"
What does something like this tell us?
1. Maybe we should liet the 3 and 4 year olds be kids.
2. If we insist on 3 and 4 year olds behaving more maturely then we need to have someone who will change their behavior on their case.
3. Parents shouln't be so anxious to push their toddlers away. If there are talents to be cultivated, the parent should have an active role in that - not the dumping off of a kid somewhere but having a hand in teh budding talent.
4. Preschool is what it is and shouldn't take itself too seriously. So what if the 4 year old can't do precalculus?
5. If they are expelled now, what is next? Expelling a child from school does what, exactly? One can't be expelled from life!
A little patience love and guidance. After all, Jesus said let the little children come unto me. He didn't say the well behaved children, the quiet children, the happy children. Just the children, in all the flavors available.
Monday, May 16, 2005
The Simple Faith of Mister Rogers author interview with Amy Hollingsworth on Beliefnet -- Beliefnet.com
Hello Neghbor. Wow!
Bring this into your own life.
The actions that we all go through on a given day can be the Holy Ground where people we meet can experience God's love.
Guess what!
God does not do things with half a heart! His graces will come right back at you!
I think that God uses what he can to touch us, and that can be the simple touch of a trusted neighbor.
Sometimes he just wants to say "You are special". Sometimes he uses you to say that to someone else.
Friday, May 13, 2005
Prayer on the Execution of Michael Ross
You have told us, no longer an eye for an eye, yet, we demand a life for a life. You have told us to turn the other cheek, but we turn a hand of chastisement. Lord God, I ask your forgiveness on your people who have put to death this guilty man. We ask that your punishment of our sins be not recompenserate to our action here, for he was killed in the name of all of us.
I ask your mercy on all who call upon you. Everlasting life was gained through the death sentence of your Son. May no one who calls upon him be denied when there is remorse for sin.
Father forgive us and have mercy! We ask this in your Son's name from beneath His precious blood. Amen.
Wednesday, May 11, 2005
DARRELL SCOTT TESTIMONY
The lesson we see before us is that we cannot turn our back on God's word. This goes beyond freedom. Freedom says we are free to live and free to die. By putting His word first, by respecting life, love and family, is the only way we will survive. It is the word of God which came long before freedom, and it was freedom to live in this word, that our fathers lived and died for. Do not forget the word and teh freedom which is it's ultimate fruit.
DARRELL SCOTT TESTIMONY
Our national leaders didn't expect this. On Thursday, Darrell Scott, the father of Rachel Scott, a victim of the Columbine High School shootings in Littleton, Colorado, was invited to address the House Judiciary Committee's subcommittee What he said to our national leaders during this special session of Congress was painfully truthful. They were not prepared for what he was to say, nor was it received well. It needs to be heard by every parent, every teacher, every politician, every sociologist, every psychologist, and every so-called expert! These courageous words spoken by Darrell Scott are powerful, penetrating, and deeply personal. There is no doubt that God sent this man as a voice crying in the wilderness. The following is a portion of the transcript:
"Since the dawn of creation there has been both good & evil in the hearts of men and women. We all contain the seeds of kindness or the seeds of violence. The death of my wonderful daughter, Rachel Joy Scott, and the deaths of that heroic teacher, and the other eleven children who died must not be in vain. Their blood cries out for answers.
"The first recorded act of violence was when Cain slew his brother Abel out in the field. The villain was not the club he used.. Neither was it the NCA, the National Club Association. The true killer was Cain, and the reason for the murder could only be found in Cain's heart.
"In the days that followed the Columbine tragedy, I was amazed at how quickly fingers began to be pointed at groups such as the NRA. I am not a member of the NRA. I am not a hunter. I do not even own a gun. I am not here to represent or defend the NRA - because I don't believe that they are responsible for my daughter's death. Therefore I do not believe that they need to be defended. If I believed they had anything to do with Rachel's murder I would be their strongest opponent.
I am here today to declare that Columbine was not just a tragedy-it was a spiritual event that should be forcing us to look at where the real blame lies! Much of the blame lies here in this room. Much of the blame lies behind the pointing fingers of the accusers themselves. "I wrote a poem just four nights ago that expresses my feelings best. This was written way before I knew I would be speaking here today:
Your laws ignore our deepest needs,
Your words are empty air.
You've stripped away our heritage,
You've outlawed simple prayer.
Now gunshots fill our classrooms,
And precious children die.
You seek for answers everywhere,
And ask the question "Why?"
You regulate restrictive laws,
Through legislative creed.
And yet you fail to understand,
That God is what we need!
"Men and women are three-part beings. We all consist of body, soul, and spirit. When we refuse to acknowledge a third part of our make-up, we create a void that allows evil, prejudice, and hatred to rush in and reek havoc. Spiritual presences were present within our educational systems for most of our nation's history. Many of our major colleges began as theological seminaries. This is a historical fact. What has happened to us as a nation? We have refused to honor God, and in so doing, we open the doors to hatred and violence. And when something as terrible as Columbine's tragedy occurs -- politicians immediately look for a scapegoat such as the NRA. They immediately seek to pass more restrictive laws that contribute to erode away our personal and private liberties. We do not need more restrictive laws. "Eric and Dylan would not have been stopped by metal detectors. No amount of gun laws can stop someone who spends months planning this type of massacre. The real villain lies within our own hearts.
"As my son Craig lay under that table in the school library and saw his two friends murdered before his very eyes-He did not hesitate to pray in school. I defy any law or politician to deny him that right! I challenge every young person in America, and around the world, to realize that on April 20, 1999, at Columbine High School prayer was brought back to our schools. Do not let the many prayers offered by those students be in vain. Dare to move into the new millennium with a sacred disregard for legislation that violates your God-given right to communicate with Him. To those of you who would point your finger at the NRA - I give to you a sincere challenge. Dare to examine your own heart before casting the first stone!
My daughter's death will not be in vain! The young people of this country will not allow that to happen!"
Do what the media did not - - let the nation hear this man's speech. Please send this out to everyone you can
Friday, May 06, 2005
The Teacher
"The Teacher"
The dinner guests were sitting around the table discussing life.
One man, a CEO, decided to explain the problem with education.
He argued, 'What's a kid going to learn from someone who
decided his best option in life was to become a teacher?'
He reminded the other dinner guests what they say about
teachers: 'Those who can, do. Those who can't, teach.'
To corroborate his point he said to another guest; 'You're a
teacher, Susan. Be honest. What do you make?'
Susan, who had a reputation for honesty and frankness,
replied, 'You want to know what I make?
I make kids work harder than they ever thought they could.
I make a C feel like the winner of the Congressional Medal
of Honor.
I make kids sit through 40 minutes of study hall in absolute
silence.
You want to know what I make? I make kids wonder. I
make them question. I make them criticize. I make them
apologize and mean it.
I make them write. I make them read, read, read.
I make them show all their work in math and perfect their
final drafts in English.
I make them understand that if you have the brains, and
follow your heart, if�someone ever tries to judge you by
what you make, you must pay no attention because they
just didn't learn.'
Susan paused and then continued, 'You want to know what
I make? I make a difference. What do you make?'
Wednesday, May 04, 2005
National Day of Prayer
Why a National Day of Prayer? Many People have problems getting started praying or committing themselves to prayer. This day brings focus to prayer and again invites us to draw near to God through prayer.
Prayer holds an important place in my life. The answer for me has several facits:
To Dedicate the country to God. God was important to this country throughout history and neither God nor country has given up on this realationship as of yet.
To renew my commitment to prayer. Lord to whom shall we go? You have the words of everlasting life. To fufill the desire the Lord has set afire in me - to make my life a prayer.
To open myself to to Spirit so that God may be present to others through me.
To convert our thinking to make every day a day of prayer. But then, shouldn't every day be a National Day of Prayer?
Tuesday, May 03, 2005
My Lawyer
After living what I felt was a "decent" life, my time on earth came to the end. The first thing I remember is sitting on a bench in the waiting room of what I thought to be a court house. The doors opened and I was instructed to come in and have a seat by the defense table. As I looked around, I saw the "prosecutor." He was a villainous looking gent who snarled as he stared at me. He definitely was the most evil person I have ever seen.
I sat down and looked to my left and there sat My Attorney, a kind and gentle looking man whose appearance seemed so familiar to me, I felt I knew Him. The corner door flew open and there appeared the Judge in full flowing robes. He commanded an awesome presence as He moved across the room. I couldn't take my eyes off of Him. As He took His seat behind the bench, He said, "Let us begin."
The prosecutor rose and said, "My name is Satan and I am here to show you why this man belongs in hell." He proceeded to tell of lies that I
told, things that I stole, and in the past when I cheated others. Satan told of other horrible perversions that were once in my life and the
more he spoke, the further down in my seat I sank. I was so embarrassed that I couldn't look at anyone, even my own Attorney, as the Devil told
of sins that even I had completely forgotten about.
As upset as I was at Satan for telling all these things about me, I was equally upset at My Attorney who sat there silently not offering any form of defense at all. I know I had been guilty of those things, but I had done some good in my life - couldn't that at least equal out part of the harm I'd done?
Satan finished with a fury and said, "This man belongs in hell, he is guilty of all that I have charged and there is not a person who can prove otherwise."
When it was His turn, My Attorney first asked if He might approach the bench. The Judge allowed this over the strong objection of Satan, and beckoned Him to come forward.
As He got up and started walking, I was able to see Him in His full splendor and majesty. I realized why He seemed so familiar; this was Jesus representing me, my Lord and my Savior.
He stopped at the bench and softly said to the Judge, "Hi, Dad," and then He turned to address the court.
"Satan was correct in saying that this man had sinned, I won't deny any of these allegations. And, yes, the wage of sin is death, and this man deserves to be punished."
Jesus took a deep breath and turned to His Father with outstretched arms and proclaimed, "However, I died on the cross so that this person might have eternal life and he has accepted Me as his Savior, so he is Mine."
My Lord continued with, "His name is written in the book of life and no one can snatch him from Me. Satan still does not understand yet.
This man is not to be given justice, but rather mercy."
As Jesus sat down, He quietly paused, looked at His Father and said, "There is nothing else that needs to be done. I've done it all."
The Judge lifted His mighty hand and slammed the gavel down. The following words bellowed from His lips.. "This man is free. The penalty for him has already been paid in full. Case dismissed."
As my Lord led me away, I could hear Satan ranting and raving, "I won't give up, and I will win the next one."
I asked Jesus as He gave me my instructions where to go next, "Have you ever lost a case?"
Christ lovingly smiled and said, "Everyone that has come to Me and asked Me to represent them has received the same verdict as you,
~Paid In Full~
"Stop telling God how big your storm is. Instead, tell the storm how big your God is!"
Monday, May 02, 2005
The Mother's Day Clock
She is appreciates any effort to acknowlege her.
She will take good care of that which is entrusted to her care; she will make improvements if neccessary.
She integrates elements of her life into that which falls short, making it more complete.
She sees the beauty in the giver.
This clock will remind me when I see it of her love for God , for me and our children.
Novena to the Holy Spirit
A novena is prayed from Ascension Thursday through Pentecost and I present it here for review and to remind myself to pray it as well:
Come Holy Spirit
Awaken within me the knowlege
of what you are calling me to do
at this time of my life.
Lead me to your truth
So that I can grow
in my love for Jesus
and be of greater service
to our Father.
Holy Spirit, help me to be open to
your grace and gifts within me.
Give me the courage to allow your
power to transform me so that I
may actively seek to be the Lord's
disciple in the world. Amen
Meditate on these questions, tehn pray the novena prayer again.
Are you doing enough now?
Do you recognize the need to do more or perhaps something new, but circumstances prevent you from doing so?
Are you being called to move in a new direction?
-to enter a new ministry?
-to deepen your faith though studies?
-to confront a relationship?
-to improve the quality of your life?
May anyone who reads thes words, be transformed by them.
Sunday, May 01, 2005
Terri's Final Hours: An Eyewitness Account - by Fr. Frank Pavone
This is a sad post. I wish I did not have to post it. However, this world is full of sadness due to the presence of sin.
Terri's story was both eclipsed by and completed by the passing of Pope John Paul 2. If not for his story, we would have heard more from pro life people like Fr. Pavone. The images presented in the above article are not easily forgotten, but against the reported peaceful passing of Terri.
She, her parents and her husband all remain in my prayers.
The lesson is in life. If you choose to ignore it it goes on. If you choose to honor it, it will go on with your own life added in the celebration. Life will give us other opportunites to laugh cry pray shout and sometimes all at the same time. Embrace life in those moments for it is in them you prove the presence of the most high in your own life.

