Lifesupport: FORGET THE DUCK

The following story speaks to me about our relationship with God, why reconciliation is a sacrament and renews my thankfulness to God for His great Love. I newly accept His gift of freedom!

FORGET THE DUCK! from www.LifeSupportSystem.com

Richard Hoefler, in his book WILL DAYLIGHT COME? (1979, C S SPublishing Company), tells about two young children visiting their grandparents for the summer. Johnny was given his first slingshot. He practiced shooting in the woods, but missed everything he aimed at.As he returned to Grandma's back yard, however, he spied her pet duck. It wasn't the only duck she kept, but it was her favorite. Onan impulse he took aim and let it fly. This time he didn't miss. His stone struck and killed the duck. The boy panicked. He didn't mean to hurt the bird -- he was even sure he'd miss! But he had killed it. His panic grew to desperation and he hid the duck in the woodpile, only to look up and see his sister. Sally had seen it all, but she said nothing to her grandparents. After lunch that day Grandma said, "Sally, let's wash the dishes."Sally said, "Johnny told me he wanted to help in the kitchen today. Didn't you Johnny?" She whispered to him, "Remember the duck."(Blackmailed by his sister!) So Johnny did the dishes. Later Grandpa asked if the children wanted to go fishing. Grandma said, "I'm sorry, but I need Sally to help make supper." Sally smiled and said, "That's all taken care of, Johnny wants to do it." Again she whispered, "Remember the duck." Johnny stayed while Sally went fishing. Johnny did both his chores and Sally's for several days, and could stand it no longer. He confessed to Grandma that he'd killed the duck.She said, "I know Johnny." She gave him a big hug and added, "I was standing at the window and saw the whole thing. But because I love you, I forgave you. I just wondered how long you would let Sally make a slave of you."His grandmother was more ready to forgive then he was even to ask for forgiveness. Similarly, we are surrounded by more grace than we may realize. But a disturbing inner voice often whispers, "Remember the duck. Remember the duck." Some people live their whole lives enslaved by the voice that says, "Remember the duck." They never let themselves be forgiven! They don't know the meaning of deep peace. They are seldom free of guilt and feel as if happiness only comes to others more deserving.What does it matter if the whole world were to love us, and accept us in spite of our failings, if we persist in feeling badly? Are you sick of feeling sick about the mistakes of your past?Maybe it's time to forget the duck! After you've done all you can to rectify the past, then it's time to put it down. Forget the duck -- and be free.

Thanksgiving is Life-Giving

Thanksgiving was not really considered a "Catholic" holiday growing up. However, by looking at living life in the framework of scripture, giving thanks to God needs to be seen as a essential, supernatural, life-changing and life-giving activity. Giving thanks goes beyond a sense of duty and is a matter of good habit. We should take nothing for granted and give thanks and praise to God in all things.

Giving thanks goes beyond the tradition of doing something for others at Thanksgiving, although that response is good and thankful. We should give what we can, while we can, for the echo of the voice of God is found in the response. If we cannot give food, or a turkey, we can help distribute or deliver the food. God will send you the hungry, no problem.

Giving thanks is a central and essential part of life. If we look at life in a selfish way in terms of a "God and Me" relationship, God's contribution cannot be ignored and although God does not ask for thanks, we are compelled to offer our thanksgiving. If we look at life as part of a community, a faith community or otherwise, The thanksgiving not only multiplies but is joined by the angels and saints, an unending song of thanksgiving in which it is time for your contribution, be it a harmony or a solo.

Giving thanks is a supernatural part of life. God himself gave thanks while here on earth and is an example to us. He gave thanks because He knew a loving Father who provides for all His needs, just as He provides for us. His love is always present whether we appreciate it or not.
Giving thanks is also scriptural. We are reminded in the liturgy of the word, and we respond "Thanks be to God". God loves us so much that the truth is seen by anyone who opens their eyes to it.

In giving thanks, we show God our appreciation for this life in which he has provided everything for us. In return He reminds us of His endless love and the gift of eternal life he has offered us. As the weather turns to cold Let us thank God for his warmth. As the days get short, we thank him for his embrace. As our bodies, minds and souls ache, let us thank him for his healing power.