Friday, August 11, 2006

THREE STEPS TO SUCCESS

Sometimes we need to take a look at what we are doing and a simple word (or article) might help us focus on our goals. Here is another wonderful inspiration from Steve Goodier, (Life Support System) lss_publishing :
Here are three simple steps to make things happen in your life:

DO IT. Dr. Norman Vincent Peale put it like this: "Action is a great restorer and builder of confidence. Inaction is not only the result, but the cause, of fear. Perhaps the action you take will be successful "perhaps different action or adjustments will have to follow. But any action is better than no action at all." If you wait until you have all the facts or until you know how you will handle every possible challenge that comes along, you'll never get started. Begin somewhere. You can't accomplish anything until you begin. Do it.

DO IT RIGHT. One poet put it like this:"If a task is once begun, never leave until it's done. Be the labor great or small, do it well or not at all."It's true: if you don't have time to do it right, when will you find time to do it over? Do it right.

DO IT RIGHT NOW. In the Spanish-American War, as the American soldiers were trying to capture San Juan Hill, they were thrown back again and again. The black powder ammunition they were using pinpointed their position for their enemies. As soldier after soldier toppled, the troops began to panic. Up rode Teddy Roosevelt, on a little horse named "Texas," urging his men on. Encouraged by his bravery in exposing himself to the whizzing bullets, the troops began to cheer their commander. "Don't cheer, men," Roosevelt called out to them. "Fight! Now's the time to fight!"There is a time to cheer. A time to reflect. A time to plan. A time to reminisce. But there is also a time to act. Those who accomplish anything worthwhile know that time is now.

Do it. Do it right. Do it right now. These are three simple steps to success.

Thursday, August 10, 2006

30 Things to Do in the Summer

I do not apologize for borrowing the following list that came to me from a webpage designed for single parents. The following list is only enriched by doing it with the ones you love. This has been a great summer, and can be made even greater. And if anyone want to add to this list, please send it in a comment. Each of htese also provides an opportunity to Praise God!

  1. Have a water balloon fight.
  2. Go for a walk along the beach or a wooded path.
  3. See the sunrise.
  4. Have a picnic.
  5. Watch the sunset.
  6. Make playdoh.
  7. Read a chapter book aloud to your kids.
  8. Read a novel (something just for you!)
  9. Go to an amusement park or local county/state fair and ride all the thrill rides!
  10. Go fishing.
  11. Make homemade ice cream in a Ziploc bag.
  12. Sit outside and sip iced tea.
  13. Make fresh lemonade.
  14. Camp out in a tent.
  15. Catch fireflies.
  16. Take pictures of the kids having fun!
  17. Eat watermelon outside, and let the juice run all over the place!
  18. Walk in the grass barefoot.
  19. Use lotion, soap, or shampoo that smells like coconuts.
  20. Paint your toenails.
  21. Get out the kids' watercolor paints and paint a picture of summer means to you.
  22. Collect seashells and save them with some sand in a decorative bowl.
  23. Sleep in at least once.
  24. Hang your bed sheets outside to dry and bask in their clean sunshine smell.
  25. Eat strawberry shortcake.
  26. Get someone else to take your picture with the kids, smiling and sun-kissed.
  27. Write a letter to a friend and include at least three great things that have happened this summer.
  28. Thank someone who has helped you out.
  29. Eat fresh tomatoes.
  30. Go swimming as a family.

Wednesday, August 09, 2006

The Call of Lady Poverty

The following quote was shared by one of my spiritual mentors Fr. George Maslar, OFM Conv.:

"Many of us struggle with the same isues as the pre-converted (St.) Francis (of Assisi), with a pampered life and a mediocre and dying faith. We know that our faith calls us to work for social justice and that this demand is non-negotiable. We know, too, as somebody once put it with a praiseworthy succinctness, that strength without compassion is violence; that compassion without justice is weakness; that justice without love is Marxism; and that love without justice is baloney! What we don't know is that the preferential option for the poor is the cure for our mediocre and dying faith."Ronald Rolheiser

This was the call of Lady Poverty- why Francis was called to always be in her presence. Lady Poverty pushes the envelope continually. There is no earthly comfort zone here, only earth stripped away, revealing the face of Love that those of the world spurn.

In the presence of poverty, God's might alone is our strength, His sacrafice is the source of our compassion, His law is the word of justice. Love is found in the truth and that truth is ever lasting.

Each Day God calls us to bring his love to the world; an unapologetic love that makes the mighty uncomfortable and makes the uncomfortable mighty. Be the Face of Love!

Tuesday, August 01, 2006

You saw Him, Didn't you?

Rewards of a Virtuous Life By Mercedes W. Gutierrez *
There is a story about a man named Jim who traveled to Calcutta to volunteer with the Missionaries of Charity. To his surprise one morning, Mother Teresa asked for his help as she roamed the streets looking for the sick and dying. When they left the house and were walking through the slums of India, Mother Teresa spotted a man lying in a ditch. She bent down and told Jim, “Pick him up.” As Jim looked at the dying man covered with sores, he thought to himself, “whatever you do, don’t touch him, don’t touch him.” So, he pulled his sleeves over his hands and reached down to lift the poor man out of the ravine.
They returned to the Missionary House and Jim laid the man on a mat in a large room where the missionaries care for the dying. After laying him down, Mother Teresa said to Jim, “bathe him.” Jim looked at Mother Teresa and then turned his glance back to the dying man. He thought again, “I cannot touch that man.” But, out of fear of disappointing Mother Teresa, he agreed. He took the sick man and laid him in a tub for washing. Then, with a sponge in hand, he cautiously patted the man’s sores, still refusing to make direct contact with him. However, with every contact the man repeatedly slipped down to the bottom of the tub. Jim was overcome with emotion, “how could I be so selfish, this man needs to know that he is not alone. He needs to know God loves him.”
Jim then placed his arms under the man’s shoulders and held him as he poured water over his wounds. While he washed the man, Jim began to rock him in his arms. At this moment, Jim noticed that he was no longer holding the man he had pulled from the ditch. He was actually holding our Lord…not an image of our Lord, but Jesus Christ himself. He had holes in his hands and feet. His side was pierced. His face was battered and bruised. While Jim was rocking him, he closed his eyes in amazement. Then, once he re-opened them, the suffering man had returned to his arms. Immediately, he looked behind him and saw Mother Teresa standing there. She smiled and softly said, “You saw him, didn’t you.”
We can only imagine the number of times Blessed Teresa of Calcutta interacted face-to face with our Savior. Her faith, her love, her outpouring of self for those who were the poorest of the poor …each of these virtues opened her soul to receive an abundance of grace: graces that actually allowed her to see Christ in humanity.
As Catholic women, we are called to demonstrate the same service of love in ourcommunities that Mother Teresa witnessed for the dying in Calcutta. We might not confront the atrocities of abandonment found in India, but God presents us with unique opportunities to grow in virtue each day. We need only ask ourselves how we respond to the cranky baby, the ungrateful parent or the gossipy neighbor. Do we react in anger, frustration and spite? Or, do we respond with patience and love.
Sacred Scripture reminds us, “whoever is without love does not know God, for God is love” (1 John 4:8). This profound verse is oftentimes dismissed because of the difficulty in implementing it. In order to know God and see His face, we must love. In addition, we need to pray for God’s grace to recognize the opportunities where we can grow in virtue. The Catechism teaches that “a virtue is a habitual and firm disposition to do good” (1803). Virtuous people pursue goodness and choose it in concrete ways.
One way that women can deepen their faith and cultivate virtue in their own lives is by attending spiritual retreats. On September 8th -9th, women will gather in Colorado Springs, Colorado at the 2006 ENDOW Catholic Women’s Forum entitled “Living a Grace-filled Life.” The Forum features two days of educational and uplifting talks from prominent Catholic speakers, daily Mass and confession, and enriching fellowship with other women.
Whether we take this opportunity for spiritual renewal or another, we must remember that God desires to reveal Himself to us in new and profound ways, just as he did with Blessed Teresa and Jim. We need only open our hearts to his grace and persevere in virtue.
Visit
www.endowonline.com for registration information about the 2006 ENDOW Catholic Women’s Forum.

* Mercedes W. Gutierrez sits on the Board of Directors for ENDOW (Educating on the Nature and Dignity of Women,) a non-profit, grassroots organization that promotes the New Feminism as proposed by Pope John Paul II. Mercedes and her husband Sergio live in Denver, Colorado.
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When did I see you hungry... thirsty.... sick... imprisoned....
Lord Open my eyes that I might see you always before me, not in the specatular, but in the ordinary, in the brad and wine of our lives, that we may see you, and ourselves be transformed.

Lord I offer myself to you today. Hold me to my offering, for what you offer in return is so much the greater.